Friendship

Friendship is what we all are dealing with, either trying to find a good one or having one and dealing with. There are many points of view on friendship and there are different kinds of it, there are some common view points.

I define friendship as a kind of relation that two people are very real with each other and if they are mad at each other they are very open about it and if they want to fight they do fight. In this way the gap between those two will be field, or as one of my friends said “the wall will fall” In a friendship both side will come to points to trust one another, and give each other a chance to understand they exist, they are human who can help them be by their side and be useful. These are the needs that a human has, to feel that they are trusted, appreciated and thought about. Accepting one another as how we are is not easy, but when people are real about they might fight and go through bumps but they are still friend and they like one another. I can say they fight for their friendship to grow.

There is some kind of friendships that people are just friends and spending time because they need those people not because of who they are but because of the position that they have. In my opinion this is a selfish way of friendship, no offence, but this is what exist.
Friendship in this way is not expected to work out on a long run, because it is only from one side gives and another side receives. If we even want to say that it is a business, still is not. Because in the business that is true that someone is buying something in order to use but the buyer is giving benefit to the seller and encouraging or maybe discouraging them. But they are giving something useful to one another.


“There are some people who are friends only for what they receive, but true friendship is for what you give and receive.” A good friend of mine.

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Cheers
Hanieh